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In the early s, the first-ever nationally representative sex survey in the United States was conducted. Researchers discovered a lot of things about American sexuality at the time, but one pleausre the most notable was that men were hogging all the orgasms.

Men were two-and-a-half times more likely than women to say they orgasm consistently during sex, the survey found. Specifically, 75 percent of guys said they always orgasm with their partner, compared to just 29 percent of women.

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The good news is that this gap seems to have narrowed a bit in the last quarter century. A national sex survey found that whereas 85 percent of men said they orgasmed the last time they had sex, 64 percent of women reported that the same.

Although the orgasm gap appears to be declining, the fact that it exists at all is problematic. So why is that?

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Why are men still so much more Mqrried than women to reach orgasm? A new study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine highlights one contributing factor: A lot of heterosexual men Calexico California woman sexy their partners are orgasming more than they really are. In this study, researchers looked at a nationally representative sample of nearly Married looking for a woman to pleasure and orgasm, heterosexual newlywed couples.

They compared how often husbands and wives said they actually orgasm during sex to how often their partners think they orgasm.

Consistent with previous research, evidence for an orgasm gap emerged. Specifically, when you look at whether people said they had regular orgasms with their partner defined as orgasming more than 80 percent of the time they have sexnine in ten men agreed compared to just one in two women.

What about husbands? The rest were split between flr 17 percent and overestimators 25 percent. Women were more satisfied with their sex lives when they orgasmed more often, when their partners accurately perceived their orgasms, and when there was more sexual communication in the relationship.

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Why do so many men get it wrong when it comes to whether their partners are climaxing? Part of it may be that men are getting their ideas about what a female orgasm looks like from porn.

Maybe they were expecting a performance. The fact that women sometimes fake orgasms may be contributing to male misperception as well.

And if they fake it with a spouse once, they might feel pressure to continue faking it, which is going to exacerbate the misperception problem, leading their husbands to believe their orgasms are more frequent than they really are. This tells us that if we really want to close the orgasm gap once and for all, one thing we need to work Sluts in Hutchinson il is closing the orgasm perception gap.


One of the best ways we can do this is by improving sexual communication skills. People need to feel empowered to tell each other what they want when it comes to sex, but also to ask their partners what they really want Mxrried enjoy, too. Follow him on Twitter JustinLehmiller.

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